Every week, children are born in the Western Cape carrying a diagnosis that cannot be reversed, medicated away, or outgrown. Fetal alcohol spectrum disorder — FASD — is caused by prenatal exposure to alcohol, and it leaves lifelong marks on the brain. The Western Cape carries some of the highest rates of FASD anywhere in the world.
On a conversation on Building the Nation, Bou di Nasie we
sat down with Kayla and Shanice from Home of Hope a registered non-profit
running a children's home, a special-needs school, and community support
programs across the province.
What is FASD, exactly?
FASD sits on a spectrum. At one end are children whose
physical features and developmental delays are unmistakable from birth. At the
other are "higher-functioning" individuals who present well in early
childhood only for the challenges to surface when they reach school age or
adolescence: dropping out, depression, difficulty holding a job.
Because the central nervous system continues developing
right through to the end of pregnancy, there is no safe amount of alcohol and
no safe point in the pregnancy. "You might have one glass," Kayla
explained, "and your child can still have effects and then people say, oh,
my kid is just ADHD." That qualifier, just, is doing a lot of heavy
lifting. FASD rarely travels alone: conduct disorder, mood disorders, and ADHD frequently
appear alongside it.
FASD is caused solely by alcohol exposure in the womb not
other substances.
The condition is lifelong. There is no cure, no medication that
reverses the brain damage.
It is known as an "invisible disability" many
children are misdiagnosed with autism or ADHD.
It is 100% preventable no alcohol during pregnancy means no
FASD.
The Western Cape records some of the highest FASD prevalence
rates globally. When pushed on whether official statistics reflect the true
scale of the problem, Kayla was direct: "I'm certain the stats are higher.
If you look at the justice system, if you look at our youth unemployment rate,
it's evident. There's no denying it."
Part of the problem is that awareness campaigns have not
reached the people who need them most. In one striking example, Kayla recounted
taking a child to a clinic and being met with a blank stare: "They said,
'What is FASD?' And these are health professionals." When the health
system cannot name the condition, it cannot screen for it, diagnose it, or
support the families living with it.
"The cycle of addiction mixes with the DNA of the
child. Unknowingly, the child becomes addicted to alcohol and when they're
older, they start drinking. The cycle continues."
One of the most damaging barriers to early intervention is
disclosure. If a mother does not tell her doctor or social worker that she
drank during pregnancy, the child's presentation impulsivity, aggression,
difficulty with abstract instructions can easily be filed under autism, ADHD,
or conduct disorder. The diagnosis is not wrong; it's just incomplete.
To illustrate how concrete the thinking of someone with FASD
can be, Kayla gave this example: tell a child to "take your clothes and go
shower" and they might shower while still wearing the clothes. An
instruction that seems obvious is genuinely abstract to them. In a prison cell,
that same misunderstanding gets read as defiance with potentially serious
consequences. "Our justice system," Kayla noted, "is not
equipped to know how to deal with them."
Home of Hope currently cares for 25 children in a
residential setting, alongside running a special-needs school and community
outreach. At 18, residents don't simply age out. The organization recently
opened a skills development workshop on its working-care farm teaching
woodworking and practical trades so that young adults with FASD can contribute
to the economy on their own terms.
Their "Living Life" program is equally hands-on: Shanice
sits with young adults and works through budgeting, writing a CV, using public
transport, and understanding bank charges. It sounds simple. It isn't an
18-year-old with FASD may be functioning emotionally at the level of a
five-year-old, and socially at the level of a twelve-year-old. "They have
a disharmonious profile," Shanice explained. "It's a mixed, mixed
type of person."
The single most effective tool for a child with FASD,
according to Home of Hope, is routine and structure. Consistency reduces
anxiety, supports learning, and prevents the behavioral crises that often push
families toward crisis services. Early diagnosis and honest disclosure dramatically
improves outcomes.
Blame, when a child is diagnosed with FASD, falls almost
entirely on the mother. That stigma keeps women from disclosing which in turn
delays diagnosis, delays intervention, and compounds the harm. Kayla and Shanice
were clear: the goal isn't to assign fault, it's to get the child the support
they need. "We need to desensitize our communities to FASD," Kayla
said. "If your child has FASD, that's okay. Accept what has been done and
focus on how you can now support your child."
Mothers who drank during pregnancy whether through
addiction, circumstance, or not yet knowing they were pregnant need therapeutic
support too. Shutting them out of the conversation only widens the gap between
the child and the care they need.
"Once you've put interventions in place, you cannot be
hands off," Shanice said. "Every day, you as the parent or guardian
need to make sure that child is doing what they need to do. It is
exhausting."
But exhaustion isn't the end of the story. "Individuals
with FASD are great," she added and that warmth was palpable throughout
the conversation. The work Home of Hope does is hard precisely because it
matters.
Home of Hope runs entirely on donations. Every contribution
supports children living with FASD in the Western Cape.
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